You’re happily petting your cat, running your fingers on their head and back and then suddenly, a scratch. This scenario is all too familiar for cat owners and has been the subject of many articles and youtube videos. 

A sudden attack from cats in the form of a scratch or a bite has become almost like a natural part of cat ownership. New owners, most especially, get scratched as they don’t quite know yet how to properly pet their cat.
While there’s no proven way to perfectly pet a cat, numerous studies and observations have shown the best places and ways to do it.

Head, chin, and back

Cats typically like to be petted under their chin, on the head, and their back, while hate having their paws and tail touched. When petting your cat, make sure to be as gentle and affectionate as possible. Go along the direction of the fur, and keep your strokes long and light. 
 

No belly rubs, please

Unlike dogs who love belly rubs, cats are rather repulsed by them. Dogs generally think of themselves mainly as predators and don’t mind feeling exposed. Cats, on the other hand, consider themselves as both the predator and prey. This is why they tend to be more cautious and protective, especially of their belly which houses their organs. Needless to say, petting their belly, if your cat ever allows it, will require immense trust.
 

Stay attentive

Don’t pet your cat when it’s preoccupied with eating or drinking, or when it’s not in the mood. If your cat is shy or scared, it’s important to be attentive and gentle. Try to speak and move slowly. Offering treats might even be a good idea. They may let you get close to pet them, but if they stay avoidant, it’s best to leave them be for a while.

 

Know when it’s time to stop

Maybe you’re in the middle of petting your cat, and then suddenly, you find their posture getting tensed, tail moving side to side, hissing or even growling. Stop and slowly move away. Sudden changes in cats’ behavior are common signs that they’re unhappy or that the petting has become too overwhelming. In this case, it’s best to pause and let your cat play on their own for a while.

Cats are smart, agile, funny and adorably snobbish little creatures. But they also have their boundaries and preferences. Petting is one way they exhibit these. While it takes time to be properly in tune with the needs and preferences of your cat, the tips above are great start points to create a bond and establish trust with your pet. 

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